Sukkot, known as the “Festival of Booths,” is among the most joyful and unique Jewish holidays. It’s an opportunity to explore the deep themes of temporary versus permanent living in a way that feels especially relevant in today’s world of wanderlust and constant transitions. No matter what stage of life you are in, Sukkot offers us an opportunity to reflect on what it means to create and find “home.”
What is Sukkot, Anyway?
First things first—Sukkot is an eight-day holiday (seven in Israel) commemorating the Israelites’ 40-year journey through the desert after leaving Egypt. During this time, they lived in temporary shelters, or “sukkot” (plural for “sukkah”), as they wandered through the wilderness. Fast-forward a few millennia, and Jews worldwide continue to build and live in these makeshift huts to remind themselves of the impermanence of life and the protection God provided during that journey.
But Sukkot is so much more than just a historical nod. It’s a time to rethink the spaces we call home, literally and metaphorically.
The Sukkah: Your Temporary Crib
For one week, the sukkah becomes the focal point of Jewish life. Think of it like camping but with a more profound meaning and much more eating involved! It’s where meals are shared, prayers are said, and memories are made. It’s a home, but not in the traditional sense—it’s open to the elements, and its fragility reminds us that nothing in life is ever truly permanent.
This temporary dwelling raises some big questions, especially for those constantly moving, traveling, or living out of suitcases. In many ways, the sukkah reflects the transient nature of modern life—whether couch-surfing at a friend’s place, subletting an apartment for a few months, or even living in a city you know you’ll leave eventually.
But wait, what’s so fun about hanging out in a temporary, shaky shack?
Sukkot is a holiday meant to be enjoyed! There is something refreshing about stepping outside your comfort zone (literally) and embracing the impermanence of the sukkah. Think of it as a reset button on the idea of home—reminding us that home isn’t just a physical structure but can be created wherever we feel safe, connected, and protected.
Permanent Homes, Temporary Feelings
We live in a world where the idea of “home” is often elusive, especially for those in our twenties. Maybe you live in your college dorm or just moved into your first apartment. Or perhaps you’re in a job that requires you to move cities every few years, leaving you feeling like you’re constantly packing and unpacking your life.
While it might seem like a hassle, Sukkot teaches us that it’s okay for our living situation to feel temporary. It’s a chance to appreciate the here and now, even if you’re unsure where you’ll be in a year. The sukkah is meant to be fragile, and that fragility can make us more present, more connected to the people we invite into it, and more appreciative of the moments we have.
So, if you don’t have a permanent “home base” just yet, maybe the sukkah can offer a different perspective. It tells us that the journey is just as important as the destination, and sometimes, the temporary stops along the way are the ones that make life the most meaningful.
Building Connections: The People We Share Sukkot With
Let’s not forget one of the best parts of Sukkot—sharing the experience with friends and family. You may not have your sukkah (not everyone has a backyard or balcony), but many synagogues, Jewish community centers, and even your friends’ houses will have one. Think of it as an open invitation to connect with others.
For example, the sukkah becomes a social hub when you gather for a big Friendsgiving dinner or that annual backyard BBQ. Sitting under the stars, wrapped in blankets (because, let’s be honest, it gets chilly), sharing stories, and laughing together is the heart of Sukkot. It’s a reminder that “home” isn’t just a place but also the people you surround yourself with.
Let’s not overlook the food. Some people get seriously creative with their sukkah menus. It’s the perfect excuse to throw together an epic potluck. Bring your favorite dish, and don’t forget the dessert—eating al fresco never tasted so good!
Life Beyond Sukkot: The Search for a Permanent Home
At the end of Sukkot, we dismantle the sukkah and return to our regular homes, but the themes linger. The holiday gives us a moment to pause and reflect on what it means to create a “home” that feels meaningful, even if it’s just for a short while.
Whether you’re setting down roots in a new city, figuring out your next move, or still living in a place that feels like a pit stop, Sukkot teaches us that home is more than four walls. It’s about finding security, joy, and connection wherever you are.
So, next time you feel uprooted, remember the sukkah—fragile, temporary, but filled with warmth and meaning. You might be in a transitional phase, but that doesn’t mean you can’t create something beautiful in the meantime.
Happy Sukkot! Fill your temporary homes with joy, laughter, and good vibes.
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